Africa's first legally married gay couple get rings

15 Dec 2006- Cape Town- There was a sense of deja vu on Friday as Africa's first gay couple to be legally married had wedding rings slipped onto their fingers again.

Conservationists Vernon Gibbs, 38, and his partner of eight years, Tony Halls, 52, beat the rush to marry on December 1 when South Africa became the first country on the continent to legalise same-sex marriages.

On Friday, the newlyweds drove hundreds of kilometres from their home in Riversdale east of Cape Town to collect two specially made rings from Uwe Koetter Jewellers.

"Gosh, they are lovely," enthused Gibbs as his eyes fell on the 18 karat gold ring, with brilliant cut white diamond seemingly suspended between two bands of gold.

The unisex rings, which designer and Koetter co-owner Johan Louw fashioned, were not seen nor fitted in person by the two men before Friday's meeting.

Corresponding by email, Gibbs and Halls both chose the same design submitted among many by Louw.

"It depicts so much about unity and bonding with the tenderness of the solitaire diamond seemingly loose but joining the two metals. There seems to be something really fragile yet incredibly strong about it," the married couple wrote to Louw when choosing their rings.

Louw said his jewellers received some hate mail, mostly from the religious right, opposing the company's decision to make the rings, together valued at more than 30,000 rand ($4,285).

"I don't want to call it a publicity stunt because to me its a big thing. We've come a long way in this country over the last 10 years, and I see it as a continuation of liberalisation of human expression in this country," Louw said.

Gibbs and Halls were married in a magistrate's office in the southeastern town of George with rings they first used in a commitment ceremony in 2002.


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