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Circumcised or Uncircumcised is it a priority in African gay sex
by Ndanji Chola
25 April 2006- There are so many ways of regarding circumcision,
others say its cleanliness, others say it proves being a real man and
some say you take time to have an orgasm. So what is circumcision when
it comes to gay sex or should I say homosexuality?
In my country it’s not every boy that has to be circumcised, it’s
according to the different traditions and it has nothing to do with sex
at all. It’s now when you get to hear other guys asking if you are cut
or Uncut.
Most guys have a preference, but does it really matter? Having to
combine Cut or Uncut with gay sex is not an issue in Zambia, it’s how
sex is performed between two men. Some guys have preferred to be
circumcised because of medical reasons, but it’s become more of an
issue, even when cruising is it in the park, on internet or in the clubs
some guys want to know if you are cut or uncut.
The issue still remains taboo for
some African gay guys, they would rather not talk about cut or uncut
instead they would be interested in knowing if one is Active or Passive.
It is a world of today where most African gay men have become so modern
that’s they have preferences.
As an African gay man I don’t think
this matters at all, the fact remains that there will be sex in between
me and the other half at some point we will both get a satisfaction out
of it without interviewing each other how the performance should be or
whether circumcised or uncircumcised..
It’s funny how sex is changing day by day among African
gay men, its becoming more complicated than it should be. If only the
preference of being cut or uncut would be replaced to being concerned
about having protective sex and promotion of condoms hence the
prevention of HIV/AIDS then most African gay men would have more to
enjoy than getting worried if one is circumcised or uncircumcised.
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